The Eight Traits of Emotional Hunger

The Eight Traits of Emotional Hunger

Emotional and physical Hunger can feel identical, unless you’ve learned to identify their distinguishing characteristics. The next time you feel voraciously hungry, look for these signals that your appetite may be based on emotions rather than true physical need. This awareness may head off an emotional overeating episode

Source:Virtue,Doreen,ConstantCraving A-Z (Carlsbad, CA:Hay House,1999)

Emotional Hunger

Physical Hunger

1.Is sudden .One minute you’re not thinking about food the next minute you’re starving. Your hunger goes from 0-60 within a short period of time

1.Is gradual. Your stomach rumbles. One hour later it growls. Physical hunger gives you steadily progressive clues that its time to eat

2.Is for a specific food . Your cravings are for one specific type of food such as chocolate pasta or a cheeseburger. With emotional eating you feel you need to eat that particular food. No substitute will do

2.Is open to different foods. With a physical hunger, you may have food preferences, but they are flexible. You are open to alternative choices

3. Is “above the neck”. An emotionally based craving begins in the mouth and mind. Your mouth wants to taste that pizza or chocolate doughnut. Your mind whirls with thoughts about your desired food

3.Is based in the stomach. Physical hunger is recognized by stomach sensations. You feel gnawing rumbling emptiness and even pain in your stomach with physical hunger.

4.Is urgent. Emotional Hunger urges you to eat NOW to instantly ease emotional pain with food.

4.Is patient. Physical hunger would prefer that you ate soon, but doesn’t command you to eat at that instant

5.Is paired with an upsetting emotion. Your boss yelled at you. Your child is in trouble at school. Your spouse is in a bad mood. Emotional hunger occurs in conjunction with an upsetting situation

5.Occurs out of physical need. Physical hunger occurs because it has been four or five hours since your last meal. You may experience light headedness or low energy if overly hungry.

6.Involves automatic or absent minded eating.Emotional eating can feel as if someone else’s hand is scooping up the ice cream and putting it in you mouth (“automatic eating”).You may not notice that you’ve eaten a bag of cookies (absent-minded eating)

6.Involves deliberate choices and awareness of the eating. With physical hunger you are aware of the food on your fork, in your mouth and in your stomach you consciously choose whether to eat half your sandwich or the whole thing.

7.Does not notice or stop eating, In response to fullness. Emotional overeating stems from a desire to cover up painful feelings. The person stuffs herself to deaden her troubling emotions and will eat second and third helpings, even though her stomach will hurt from over fullness

7.Stops when full. Physical hunger stems from a desire to fuel and nourish the body.As soon as that intention is fulfilled, the person stops eating

8.Feels Guilty about Eating. The paradox of emotional over eating is that the person eats to feel better and ends up berating herself for eating cookies, cakes or cheeseburgers. She promises atonements to herself (“Ill start my diet tomorrow”)

8.Realizes eating is necessary. When the intent behind eating is based in physical hunger there’s no guilt or shame the person realized that eating like breathing or oxygen is a necessary behaviour